Category Archives: Relationships


In terms of the views of Rabbi Yisroel Bernath in Kosher Love (2017) Where you don’t go into it to marry yourself. Film by Evan Beloff. Though it is Rabbi Bernath

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“I talk all the time. I have to fish.”

Comment of an acquaintance, as to how he met his current girlfriend, who works in the same building. Turns out there are lots of lessons on conversation to lead to alleged connection.

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Conversation between friends, where one had been in a delusional state, requiring hospitalization: He: I know you were in a delusional state. I was in the emergency department at the hospital with you. She: Are you sure?

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You give it to me, I give it to you

All this whatnot in terms of moment of the moment. This socially constructed fantasy of connection, social or otherwise. The morning after the party. The party into the morning, that still leads Vapours and hollow. Forty years ago, or yesterday. … Continue reading

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Do You Ever

You think about them. Wonder if they ever think about you. This positive element of age. So much past making sense in the present. Patterns discovered. Influences appreciated. Yet one experiences the reconnection fade. Or the reconnection shutdown. Or know … Continue reading

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Different Traits

Supposed to tell you that I knew you But I can’t remember Everybody’s got their different traits

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It all comes back

My ex-wife and I get along much better now, with mutual respect. Wasn’t that way, for roughly ten years of a sixteen year marriage. As matters were deferred to collapsing, started working on Parliament Hill, 1995. Met with personnel officer. … Continue reading

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She said I love a man with thinning hair. She was in her twenties. So was he. Another said the thinning caused a focus on the face, which she liked. Like hijab or niqab effect. Focus on what is there, … Continue reading

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…of grass. He said that when the blades grow straight along side each other, they grow tall and healthy. If they start to grow sideways, they will ultimately be overtaken and perish from those around growing straight. As said by … Continue reading

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Say it, sometime

Let you say it, sometime You can rage, with distance.

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